Can you remember, who you were before the world told you who
you should be? Before social media and tabloids decided that it was their job
to define beauty for the rest of us? What screws us up most in life is the
picture in our head of how it’s supposed to be.
I had a conversation with one of my friends recently about
how we felt like we weren’t successful enough for 23 year olds. We actually
compared ourselves to characters on television shows around the same age—yeah
television shows. We realized that was absolutely ridiculous, but the strangest
part was how easy it was to compare ourselves to these fictional characters
portrayed by decorated celebrities with stylists.
As the conversation continued we started to talk about how
these same characters dictated our definition of physical beauty and eventually
about how we believed that beauty is much deeper than the skin. One of the most
beautiful things is when people are 100% organic. There is something special about a person who is unapologetically
themselves. It takes guts to be who you really are and not who the world wants
you to be.
💓Just be you, you are enough!!
It was eye opening to see how much the entertainment
industry had influenced us and even how we saw ourselves. This hour long phone
conversation was life changing, silly as that may sound. The realization that
my beautiful friend (or rather beautyFULL) was struggling through the same
self-doubt as me was reassuring, for lack of a better word. We ended the
conversation by encouraging each other and agreed that we definitely are
successful and although we may not be where we want to be in life yet, we are
absolutely on our own paths to greatness.
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